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Friday, May 23, 2008

Dress Code makes man goes CRAZY



Ridiculous. I am a man, and school uniforms does not turn me ON. A man so retard and idiot as hell? I am embarrassed by statements by some 'Islamist wannabe'. The dress code has been there for over the years and now say that it turn man ON. As such I totally agree with Sisters in Islam that something must be seriously wrong with local men if the sight of girls in their school uniform turns them on. It is so ridiculous and stupid. I must say a stupid statement of the year.

----- Taken from the Star

PETALING JAYA: Something must be seriously wrong with local men if the sight of girls in their school uniform turns them on, says Sisters in Islam.

Programme manager, Norhayati Kaprawi, describes claims made by National Islamic Students Association of Malaysia that the school uniform worn by girls at government schools “encouraged rape and pre-marital sex” as baseless.

“I totally disagree with the statement. What? Even wearing baju kurung is still not enough?” she asked.

“As for the white blouse being too transparent, Malay women who are in mourning wear white baju kurung. Even Umno women wear white baju kurung. So what is the issue?” she said when contacted yesterday.

The student association’s vice-president Munirah Bahari had stated that “the white blouse is too transparent for girls and it becomes a source of attraction to men, who are drawn to it, whether or not they like looking at it.”

She also called for a review of the uniform policy so that it did not violate Islamic ideals.

Women’s Aid Organisation executive director Ivy Josiah said what was needed was ”a review of misguided beliefs about women's attire,” not a review of the uniform policy.

“Statistics and research has shown that all women – young, old, women clad in tudung (headscarf), miniskirts, even babies in diapers – have been victims of rape and sexual assault.

“It is entirely irresponsible for anyone to suggest the idea that rape is a result of attire. Rape is not about attire, it’s about power that perpetrators feel they have over their victims,” she pointed out.

Even men spoke out against Munirah's logic.

Men’s Action Network Against Violence (man.v) member David Anthony said such statements stereotyped men as people who don’t see women as anything other than sex objects.

“It’s the wrong attitude ... it’s perversion,” he said.

Women, Family and Community Development Minister Datuk Dr Ng Yen Yen declined comment.

6 comments:

sebol said...

Saya harap saudara Damian terbuka untuk menerima pendapat:-


Terbukakah Minda Bukan Islam Dalam Isu Baju Sekolah Seksi?

Damian 'Baba' Yeo (杨胜利) said...

Dear Sebol,

Saya memang terbuka menerima pendapat tetapi saya percaya ia tidak menghalang saya untuk mengkritik sesuatu pendapat. This is what I call agree to disagree. Di mana saya terima apa-apa kritikan dalam blog saya.

Walaubagaimanapun, sekiranya kenyataan saya menghiris hati, saya minta maaf tetapi saya percaya saya ada hak untuk berfikir dan bersuara.

Dalam isu ini, saya ingin menyatakan ia menjadikan satu kelemahan lelaki sekiranya lelaki dapat digoda semata-mata kerana pemakaian. Ini saya ingin jelaskan sebagai seorang lelaki, kita perlu mempunyai satu pegangan agama yang kuat di mana kita sebagai kaum lelaki dapat 'withstand' apa-apa godaan dunia (wordly temptation) iaitu perempuan atau wang ringgit.

Kita perlu memperkuatkan iman dan keagamaan kita supaya tidak dipengaruhi oleh pemakaian dan juga situasi bukan kawalan kita. Kita sebagai lelaki mesti ada pegangan yang kuat dalam agama dan prinsip kita.

Ia adalah amat memalukan sekiranya kita sebagai lelaki dapat senang digoda oleh pemakaian dan juga keadaan sekeliling kita.

Oleh kerana ini, saya pegang kepada kenyataan dalam blog saya.

This is only my opinion.

Anonymous said...

i think sebol once did it so dia dah takut...

Syahira Jamel said...

"..Ridiculous. I am a man, and school uniforms does not turn me ON. A man so retard and idiot as hell? I am embarrassed by statements by some 'Islamist wannabe'. The dress code has been there for over the years and now say that it turn man ON. As such I totally agree with Sisters in Islam that something must be seriously wrong with local men if the sight of girls in their school uniform turns them on. It is so ridiculous and stupid. I must say a stupid statement of the year.."

I don't really think that you have read the original post made by MUNIRAH BAHARI in her blog. you have totally misunderstood of what Munirah wants to stress on. It's not the color that matters, but it is how you portray yourself for not being too sexy! And, school uniform is an ATTIRE and ATTIRE is a part of factors that lead toward social ills..do kindly read statistics.

Damian 'Baba' Yeo (杨胜利) said...

i must admit that i did not read her blog in toto. But at the same time I must say that for the purposes of rights, then I must put my foot down.

i come into that conclusion as the news report says school uniform. Meaning including non Muslim. As such I am totally against her statement. However if she means only muslim school uniform then I will not even mentioned it in my blog.

sebol said...

Dalam kes ini, Suara Lelaki Islam dan Suara Lelaki bukan Islam boleh diketepikan sedikit, Akan tetapi suara Perempuan Islam adalah diutamakan.

Ini soal pakaian Perempuan Islam, Jika mereka (Perempuan Islam) sendiri mahukan pakaian yang bagi mereka boleh melindungi mereka secara langsung atau tidak langsung. Itu hak mereka.

Pendokong Demokrasi lelaki seperti saya dan Damian, tak boleh menafikan hak mereka.

damian:
They has made a statement that "pelajar Perempuan" is actually refering to only muslim student.